Attract Your
Ideal Relationship Using the Law of Attraction
By Michael Losier
First, I'll need to explain what Law of
Attraction is and how it works. You see, the Law of Attraction states
that you'll attract to your life whatever you give your attention,
energy and focus to, whether wanted or unwanted--emphasis on the
unwanted. The "vibes" that you put out (also called
vibrations) are either negative vibes or positive vibes, and at every
moment, the Law of Attraction is responding to the vibes you are
offering by giving you more of the same, whether wanted or unwanted.
If you are curious about what it is that
you are offering vibrationally in any area of your life, you simply need
to take a look at that area and see what you're getting… it's a
perfect match. Mentally take a brief inventory of different
relationships that you have in your life. For some people, there is a
mixture of the kinds of people they have in their lives; some who
support and uplift them, and others who are negative. So why do you
attract negative people?
In both of these cases, you're already
experiencing the Law of Attraction. As you enjoy and appreciate certain
people in your life, in that moment, you are offering positive
vibrations. The Law
Of Attraction is unfolding and orchestrating
whatever needs to happen to bring you more of the same. And as you
notice and pay attention to the negative people in your life and the
things that irritate you about them, you'll see the Law of Attraction
unfold to bring you more of the same. By shifting your focus and
attention to what you do want, then you'll change the results
accordingly.
Want to know how to attract your ideal
mate? Build a list of all the things you didn't like about your current
or last mate/partner. This list, we'll call "contrast," will
help you understand. For example, if your list of negative things about
'past mates' includes someone that doesn't take you to dinner, spend
time with you, doesn't uplift you, or spends too much time away
travelling, now you'll be able to see why you're attracting this. Your
list makes it clear, remembering that whatever you place your attention
to, you'll get more of it.
The Law of Attraction can only bring to
you what you give your attention, energy and focus to, so change what
you're focusing your attention on by asking yourself, 'What do I want?'
When you catch yourself thinking or saying what you don't want, in that
very moment, state what you do want. The words and the vibration will
change. Remember, you can only hold one vibration at a time, so make it
a good one!
In the example above, if we were to ask,
"What do you want?" after each of those negative statements,
our new list would bring us clarity about our ideal mate and would sound
like: "My ideal mate takes me to dinner often, spends ample time
with me, uplifts me, and spends a pleasing amount of time at home."
Can you feel the difference? It's this feeling, or "vibe" that
the Law of Attraction is responding to. Make sense? Go ahead and try it.
Shift your attention to what you do want and know in that moment the Law
of Attraction is responding to your vibration. The results will astonish
you.
Michael Losier, a Law of
Attraction Trainer and author, supports people in
understanding and practicing the Art of Deliberate
Attraction, so they can have more of what they want and less
of what they don't. Michael has been applying the principles
of Law of Attraction for many years and enjoys a wonderful
and rewarding life in the city of Victoria, BC, Canada. He
facilitates a number of in-person Law of Attraction seminars
as well as Teleseminars to a worldwide audience.
For more articles by Michael
Losier, Teleclass information or to purchase the book, Law
of Attraction, The Science of Attracting More of What You
Want and Less of What You Don't, visit http://www.LawOfAttractionBook.com.
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