It Really Is Okay to Skip To The End
by Eva Gregory
Do you know what you want, but you're not
exactly sure how to get it? Perhaps it is an idea for a new business,
product, or career but you're not certain of the steps that you will
need to take in order to reach your final destination? Has this
indecision stopped you in your tracks?
I have three words for you: "Don't
let it!"
While it is human nature to want to have
all of your ducks in a row before your move onward, and it is said that
you should have a plan, sometimes it is much more important to remove
the obstacle that "lack" (of a plan to move forward) is
placing in your way. I know that I don't have to remind you that 2003 is
the year that we will eliminate the word "lack" from our
vocabulary, thoughts and lives. (WINK, WINK) Lack comes from the Law of
Repulsion, just the thing that we want to deactivate.
When we use works like "I
want", "I desire" or "I need" along with how,
where, when and what, we are activating the Law of Repulsion because we
are focusing on what we do not have. For example, stating that you
"want a million dollars" really emphasizes that the reason you
want it is because you don't have it. Doesn't it? Lack is again rearing
its head! So let's work on putting you in a place to attain your goal.
I know what your next question
is..."So, if we're not going to worry about a plan, how are we
going to achieve our goal?" Am I right? Well, when you have a true
desire about something you want, rather than going to not knowing HOW to
make it happen, as Nike would say, "Just Do It!" Go to the end
result of what you are wanting and focus on that, not the way that it
should be achieved. Use words like "I am", "I
choose", "I receive", or "I manifest". The
means and answers will come to you, without you getting in your head
about it. Using this practice, you've already made huge strides towards
achieving your goals - you've thought of the idea and determined its
outcome by envisioning yourself holding the brass ring! You will notice
that the people, circumstances and energy necessary to make your end
result possible will show up. Just trust your intuition that the middle
part will speak up in perfect timing, loud and clear.
Here's an example. Jim has been sending
out proposals for his firm. As he hits the 'send" button on his
e-mail he says, "I really need to land a big account." Did you
recognize Jim sabotaging himself by activating the Laws of Repulsion?
Good! So did Jim after a while. Instead, he decided to say, "I'm
going to focus. I have landed the most wonderful account. I have
manifested the largest most successful account in my career. Thank you
so much for this account." What a switch in energy! So what shows
up, as a result of Jim changing his way of thinking? Does he get the big
account? Well, not initially. That's because Jim keeps vacillating
between the Law of Attraction and the Law of Repulsion. He says that he
has landed the biggest account of his career thus far, but he keeps
attaching "but WHEN?" messages at the end.
Jim successfully gets a grip on his
thoughts, refocuses, and develops some patience. He sits down to prepare
to write another proposal, and decides to take a break to collect his
thoughts by checking his voice mail. Jim is delighted to find that he
has two messages from a client that is very interested in the proposal
he sent out three weeks before. This potential client does indeed bring
to the table the largest account that Jim has ever handled. So you see,
ultimately, you have the power to create the things that you want in
your life, just like Jim. Just trust in yourself, remain steadfast and
resist falling back into the trap of the Law of Repulsion.
Patience is a primary key to your success
when manifesting. Concentrate on the end and watch those things you
focus on begin to manifest in your reality. Begin keeping a journal
documenting the things that start showing up, as an affirmation to the
strides that you are making. And always remember to show gratitude for
what is coming to you.
About the Author
Eva Gregory, master coach, speaker and
author of The Feel Good Guide To Prosperity, www.feelgoodguide.com
, has instructed thousands on the Laws of Attraction. You're welcome to
"reprint" this article online as long as it remains complete
and unaltered (including the "about the author" info at the
end), and you send a copy of your reprint to eva@coacheva.com
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